I am not a big fan of winter. Going out into the snow is not my idea of a good time. My mother used to wrap me up until movement was impossible, so it was kind of hard to then “go out and play in the snow”.
There was one time I went out that I wouldn’t trade for anything. My father worked a lot of hours as a butcher in his parents’ grocery store. He was gone from six in the morning until six in the evening every day but Sunday. I was always wanting to spend time with him, but those times were not as often as I liked. He was usually tired and grumpy when he got home from work. My constant chatter was more than he could take, after talking to customers all day.
One winter day when I was about 7 or 8 years old, we had a huge snowfall overnight. Everything in town was closed, including schools of course. My father was worried about the store. Although my grandparents lived right next door to it, they were too old to shovel snow, or venture out the short distance to the store.
He decided he needed to walk to check on them and the store. It was only about three blocks from us, but with the deep snow it would probably take a while to get there. I’m not sure how it went, but I imagine as soon as he started getting ready to go, I started begging to go with him. I guess I shouldn’t admit it, but I was good at begging and good at wearing him down to get what I wanted. He found it hard to maintain a firm no to my pleas. My mother was not so easy and could tune me out with ease. She probably had more practice, being with me all the time.
Anyway, it was finally decided that I could go. I was suited up, as usual and my father and I began our quest to rescue my grandparents. The trip was marvelous. Sometimes the snowdrifts were higher than my head and he would have to carry me along for a bit. We talked and talked about everything and he just seemed amused and genuinely as happy as I was. He told me about the day he was born. There was a big snow that day too and when he didn’t breathe right away, the midwife took him out on the porch and stuck his feet in the snow! He gasped and started crying!
We played a little bit too, but never lost sight of our goal. I believe it took about an hour to trudge through all of that snow and get to the store. He dropped me off at the house and began shoveling a path from the house to the store. I stayed with my grandparents, which was always a treat – literally, since she was a fantastic cook and she always had candy from the store. I snuggled up next to my grandfather in his big easy chair and got warm again while he smoked his pipe.
Soon, Dad came back in and I went with him to “help” check out the store. Everything was fine. He brought food back to my grandparents and they had everything they might need for a day or two. It was time to head back home. The return journey was the same as before, but more people had shoveled by now and the going was easier.
I still don’t like snow and cold weather, but that day was one of the best of my life. I guess the weather didn’t really have anything to do with it. It doesn’t matter where you are or what you’re doing. It matters who you are with.
I am not a big fan of winter. Going out into the snow is not my idea of a good time. My mother used to wrap me up until movement was impossible, so it was kind of hard to then “go out and play in the snow”.
There was one time I went out that I wouldn’t trade for anything. My father worked a lot of hours as a butcher in his parents’ grocery store. He was gone from six in the morning until six in the evening every day but Sunday. I was always wanting to spend time with him, but those times were not as often as I liked. He was usually tired and grumpy when he got home from work. My constant chatter was more than he could take, after talking to customers all day.
One winter day when I was about 7 or 8 years old, we had a huge snowfall overnight. Everything in town was closed, including schools of course. My father was worried about the store. Although my grandparents lived right next door to it, they were too old to shovel snow, or venture out the short distance to the store.
He decided he needed to walk to check on them and the store. It was only about three blocks from us, but with the deep snow it would probably take a while to get there. I’m not sure how it went, but I imagine as soon as he started getting ready to go, I started begging to go with him. I guess I shouldn’t admit it, but I was good at begging and good at wearing him down to get what I wanted. He found it hard to maintain a firm no to my pleas. My mother was not so easy and could tune me out with ease. She probably had more practice, being with me all the time.
Anyway, it was finally decided that I could go. I was suited up, as usual and my father and I began our quest to rescue my grandparents. The trip was marvelous. Sometimes the snowdrifts were higher than my head and he would have to carry me along for a bit. We talked and talked about everything and he just seemed amused and genuinely as happy as I was. He told me about the day he was born. There was a big snow that day too and when he didn’t breathe right away, the midwife took him out on the porch and stuck his feet in the snow! He gasped and started crying!
We played a little bit too, but never lost sight of our goal. I believe it took about an hour to trudge through all of that snow and get to the store. He dropped me off at the house and began shoveling a path from the house to the store. I stayed with my grandparents, which was always a treat – literally, since she was a fantastic cook and she always had candy from the store. I snuggled up next to my grandfather in his big easy chair and got warm again while he smoked his pipe.
Soon, Dad came back in and I went with him to “help” check out the store. Everything was fine. He brought food back to my grandparents and they had everything they might need for a day or two. It was time to head back home. The return journey was the same as before, but more people had shoveled by now and the going was easier.
I still don’t like snow and cold weather, but that day was one of the best of my life. I guess the weather didn’t really have anything to do with it. It doesn’t matter where you are or what you’re doing. It matters who you are with.